We learn to be independent at an early age. As children we want to choose what toys to play with. We want to ride our bike without training wheels. We choose who we want to be friends with. We tell our parents we don’t need their help. We want to be in charge of everything around us. As we age, life happens. We now care for our families and tend to our homes. Financial decisions are made that will impact our future and the future of our children. Where do we live? What college will my children attend? Do we really need that swimming pool? Will we have enough money for retirement? Will we enjoy our golden years?

Living independently is not an easy task. It is a roller coaster of ups and downs, good and bad that seems to never end. Then one day we realize our children are grown and on their own. We have a house to maintain, a yard to mow, snow to shovel, gutters to clean and windows to wash. Do we stay in our home or should we consider moving to one of those “places” where old people go?

Independent Living

Independent living is a new way of looking at life. It’s about having choice and lifestyle change. It’s about maintaining independence. It’s about finding a new place to belong. There are many independent living options available in our community with various services and amenities to offer. If independent living is in your future, here is a list of questions that you will want to ask yourself initially.

• Am I ready to make a change?

• Do I want to stay close to family?

• Does my family think this is a good move?

• What amenities are important or not important? What can I live with or without?

You are contemplating independent living. Here are a few suggestions to assist you in your search.

• Word of mouth. Ask family, friends and neighbors who they would recommend.

• Start off with at least six options of interest.

• Research your options via internet to see if amenities meet your needs. Or call and request information for your review.

• Narrow your search to three options.

• Schedule a tour with all three options.

• Make list of questions and take with you during tour.

• If available, take a family member with you.

Here are a few suggested questions that we recommend you ask during your tour.

• If I run out of resources will I have to move?

• If faith is important ask what is available.

• If I have a medical emergency can I get help?

• If I need temporary assistance is it available?

Touring a campus, meeting staff and residents is the best way to get a sense of community. Searching for your ideal neighborhood is like buying a home. Does it feel right? Do I sense that this is my new home? If the answer is yes, you have found your home for life.

For more information on Independent Living at The Village of St Edward contact Annette Walters at 234-466-5253 orAnnette.walters@vsecommunities.org. You can also visit our website at www.vsecommunities.org.